View into the Future...

All I've learned this past week is that unless you're incredibly annoying, I will date you.... Yes, that includes Gay boy (not that there's anything wrong with that but there comes a definitive point in the relationship when you are both attracted to men that will hinder any further developments in said love affair).

No, after disclosing that he is indeed NOT gay and that he has never been asked that more since moving to BC, I still furthered the end by texting him to tell him that we really had nothing in common. The fact that he texted back & told me he thought we had a 'connection' wasn't what spurred another date but rather what happened saturday night.

Saturday day I went to the wedding of 2 complete strangers. Neither of them I had met before but my friend Jennifer needed a last minute date as her original one had to bail. So rather then take another guy & fuel speculation that he's her boyfriend (bride is her ex's sister... wants to give the right appearnce), she took me & we announced our African baby was coming in October.

The wedding was great. Food was good, wine was great, the people were fun. Our table consisted of 2 couples and a single woman in her 50's that was friends with the mother of the bride. Jen and I both had heart attacks because not only was she stuck sitting with us but was this a peek into our future 20 years from now? Here was this 50 something year old stewardess (sorry, flight attendant), never been married, going to weddings alone. I mean COME ON! Jen is already taking me as a date.. who's to say that we won't be showing up alone to these things pretty soon. Not to mention the fact that she's never taken the trip.. has been close she said but never went thru... ugh.. NOT enough wine my friends... not enough wine.

So, I figured I'd give the gay guy another chance... unfortunately for him, I now find him incredibly annoying so I doubt I'll call him back.... I just need someone that does more then waiters, & goes to wreck beach. I even commented that it's like he's 21 & he retorted with, yes, Isn't it great?

NO! no it's not, when I was 21, I was in art school, worked in a bar & lived in New West. Course, back then I had a car & cheap ass rent & loved what I did...... hmmmmmm, i may need to review this.