Things that I've Learned the Hard Way

#821: There is no good way to ask the guy you're dating if he is gay (or at least bi.. I thought I was being tactful by asking him if he's ever 'swung'). Apparently, you are the second person this week that has asked him that. He doesn't know any high energy gay men and that in fact he is dark & moody. So when the last thing they say to you on MSN is "ok, now I'm offended" they wil l pretty much block you in a huff and log off. Probably won't answer the 'I'm sorry phone call' because god forbid, they're not being a drama queen but because as they put it, they're no queen at all.

Well, I wondered how I was going to get out of this one...