The Double Standard

I've mentioned that dating is a game and it is. Girls are supposed to act one way & guys are supposed to be another. Essentially anything that a girl does that emasculates a guy is a no no. Guys like the hunt. They like the un-gettable. As soon as a girl that they're atracted to, turns them down, they turn up the heat.

NOW why is it when a girl goes for something that she wants it is "psycho"? Case in point. My friend we'll name all-star met her mexican boyfriend at Doolins. There was drinking, there was flirting... hell may be even the odd kiss exchanged once or twice. Everything is fun except that after she left the bar & woke up the next day she pretty much wasn't interested in him anymore. Unfortunately for her, the night before said otherwise & gave him her number.

LET THE PHONE CALLS BEGIN!

He called her every night & twice on sundays. He would tell her how beautiful she was & serenade her. Upon re-reading this sentence, yes, we could agree that this behaviour was odd BUT we shrugged it off as cute & the consomation incurred.

When the guy pursues, he is into her & it's endearing... he's trying to swoon us.. BUT if we call or show interest back, we're psycho.

What is the line?

Course the way that story played out... He ended up being REALLY BAD in bed. So no matter what he does, he won't win her back...We think he phones up & makes out on the phone.. or at least we're hoping that's what he's doing. *shudder*...

Note to the boys... that doesn't work.

I was going to go somewhere with this today but alas, I've run out of time and what can I say.. they can't all be gold.

To be con't....