Why are boys, boys?

Ok, Yet another Hollywood break-up has occurred... after 10 years of Marriage, Ritchie Sambora & Heather Locklear have broken up... In real life, I don't care... I mean it's too bad that they broke up but it really doesn't effect my life all that much so I think I'll flip the page.

But this has been the week for crappy boy occurances. What I would like to know is why guys have a really hard time keeping it in their pants? For example... a few weeks back I'm at Crush Nightclub on a girls night out. Now normally the place is kinda dead and not a lot goes on there. BUT this night was awesome there were tons of guys walking around in suits (and we all know how I LOVE a man in a suit) Anyways, turns out there was a huge sales conference being held in Vancouver from a Norwegian based country.... NORWEGIANS FOR EVERYONE!
Now, I had just fought off the advances from one pretty sleazy off duty VP who admittedly had a gf but still wanted to take me home and "throw me up against the wall"... So as I go to the bar to get a drink to try & wipe out the previous 5 minutes I run into one incredibly tall suit. His name is irrelevant so we'll just refer to him as my Dutch Boyfriend from now on.

We chat & actually get along quite well.. He had a quick sarcasm about him that I find attractive. (i hate anyone I could walk all over) After about 10-15 minutes, we exchange cards & he informs he has to leave & says goodbye to my friends & gives me 3 kisses because that's what they do in Amsterdam. I figure I'll never hear or see him again.

Come the following monday I recieve an email from DB saying hello & how are you etc etc.... We've now been corresponding every day since... that is UNTIL I find out he not only lives w/ his gf BUT has a 17 month old daughter!

WHY WHY WHY did you email me? It's not like he hasn't been blatantly flirting with me either. I just find this kind of behavious peculiar. Cuz after that.. I feel kind of creepy like I'm doing something wrong. I mean I don't think he went home & told his girlfriend he met some girl in Canada & is now corresponding w/ her every day & oh, I'm taking her on a special tour when she comes to town (I'm heading to Europe in April.. JUST by coincidence). Ya.. something isn't sitting right w/ me

The funniest part of the whole thing is that I always thought he was a gentleman. He left politely, didn't blatantly hit on me. Emailed me once he was home... Not that something would happen but I figure.. YES this is the kind of guy I could get into.. just gotta find me one of those locally AND I find out he pretty much has sleazy tendancies as well...

So girls we all bitch and say Van guys are the worst around.. Well, it looks like they don't change no matter where they are from. They just have different accents.